The bible says a soft answer turns a wrath, but grievous words stir up anger. Do you find yourself arguing with ppl all the time? Or arguing with the same ppl all the time? Let’s examine ourselves. The bible says a gentle answer turns away wrath, Not a smart, sarcastic, low-blow, slick response; Those words are griveious, and they stir up anger. They cause a person to snap, go off, and argue. I found myself pointing my finger at other ppl while asking God for help, but as we dissected my conversations, I realized I was the problem. Yes some ppl may be argumentative, but we don’t have to react to every single thing… The enemy is constantly planting traps for us to fall into sin, that we may bring unpleasant situations to our life. Ask God to teach you to acknowledge them.